How to be Beneficial

Life is short. And God give us enough freedom to shape it consciously and unconsciously. How we use our mind, is within our control. But sometimes, unconsciously we use it wrongly that turns our life undesirable. We are here in this world for a purpose, so live up to it. Make your life beneficial and worth it not just for yourself but also to others.

There are many ways of becoming beneficial. Listed below are a few to consider.

- Produce something that can benefit others
- Contribute your energy or money for the good being of others
- Share knowledge and experience with others
- Motivate and inspire others to excel in every way they can

The list can go on and on, but it will be meaningless, if it lacks quality.

The quotes that says "We need to have in order to give" is very true. Replenish yourself with energy, knowledge, motivation and inspiration in order to benefit others. Get enough sleep and rest, keep on learning and exploring and find inspiration in life in every way you can. The key is to enjoy every moment in acceptance and appreciation, and to focus on your niche. Be efficient, effective, expert and inspired. Keep it alive and dynamic through improvement.

Every night, before you go to bed, reflect back on your activities earlier in the day. Assess your qualities, and most importantly always find ways to improve no matter how satisfied you are with your day. There is always room for improvement. Then ask yourself how you can benefit others from what you have. Finally accept what is and thank God for everything in your life.

Simplify and Beautify your Life

We always hear complaints from others on how stressful they are, how boring their day was, how busy they are and so on and on.... all surrounding on negativity in life. That's the problem with us human being we only see the negative parts and ignoring the positive parts. No wonder we complaint so much.

Actually every moment of our life is a gift. Every moment is an opportunity to explore and improve our life. We interpret the world around us using our mind. We see and feel through our five senses; vision, hearing, touching, smelling and tasting. But the interpretation is done in our mind. Different mind has different interpretation. A negative minded will interpret a scenario negatively, while a positive minded will always see the positive in everything despite the hardship or trouble.

The choice is yours. If you see negatives in your surrounding, you'll suffer. Your life will be full of worries, hatred, sad, regret, jealousy and other negative feelings. On the other hand, if you decide to see only the positives in everything, you'll will be more calmer, relax, happy, friendly, helpful, lovely and full of positive acceptance.

However, there are times when the situation is too negative or you can't see any positive side of it, then you are the one who have to turn the situation into a positive situation. Smile and be calm, be nice to others and love others unconditionally. It is worth the effort. The power is in your mind.

Welcome each moment of your life as an opportunity to explore and enjoy your life. Live your life from moment to moment and enjoy the beauty of each moment sincerely.

Intention the Key to Your Action.

We can have well planned future maps. We can have all the facilities we need, all the support we want, but whether the action will meet the desired objectives  depends on our intention. We may say we want, we wish and we desire something to realize. We take the action and precaution we can take. We move on, sometimes running, sometimes walking and sometimes crawling. Sometimes we feel energetic and sometimes hopeless and helpless.

Whether we are aware or not, our foundation is not strong enough. That's why we lack of consistency and focus. We are missing something important. A sincere intention!

A clear, pure and sincere intention make us see our destination more clearly and confidently. If the intention is strong we can even feel the desired result in our soul. A strong intention ignores energy wasting distractions and obstacles. It is the energy that pushes us through our effort even when the path is not clear. It helps us to be more consistent and enjoy our journey to our intended destination.

Therefore make sure your punch is direct to the point; sharp and confident, event though it did not really hit the target precisely. What matters is the effort. Be thankful of the result and accept it. The most important thing is that you have take the effort to realize your sincere intention.

Begin every effort with a sincere intention and feel the result in your soul.

My peaceful Project

Studies has shown (Heartfelt) that, our heart and mind have the power to change the human beings in this world. I always refer to clean flowing water as a pure clean life; never complains but keep on going flowing touching the life of others as it pass by, doesn't resist, but accept things as it comes and live as it is. Leave behind the dirt and unwanted molecules, to maintain its purity and cleanliness.

After reading the 'Heartfelt' article , I felt awaken. How easy it is to be beneficial to others. Our life and the world around us is surrounded by the positives and the negatives. All we have to do is to make a choice in every moment of our life. Just choose on focusing the positives. See the positives in yourself, see the positives in others. Spread your love and appreciation to the world wide, by focusing on the positives in you and others. The positives vibration will soon spread around the world, flooding the world with love, appreciation, kindness, gratitude and smiles. It all begins from your heart, so start smiling from the bottom of your heart to someone today and make his day.

My Experience Being in the Moment

Have you had the experience of enjoying you own companion? You alone with yourself? The fact of being alone scares some people. They just want to be around somebody. They don't like the feeling of loneliness. They rely on external factors for being alive and entertained.

On the other hand, some people enjoy being alone. They accomplish more when alone. They feel more alive and self-content when alone. Why does this happen?

When we appreciate every moment of our life, we do our best every moment of it no matter what the circumstances is. We accept the moment as it comes and try to benefit from it in every way we can. Keep on flowing like water to maintain our purity. Stagnant water collects dirt, so flow with the moment smoothly and gently, just like a flowing water.

I had this experience before; being alone. I had a list of tasks to do. So I do each one mindfully, enjoying myself. My focus were sharp on the moment at hand. I completed the task smoothly and was feeling much more efficient and happy.

From my observation, to live mindfully, you have to focus on your moment. Whatever you are doing or feeling, make it special. Let other things freeze. Only the doing or the feeling is happening and you are enjoying it. Time doesn't stop or pause, so should you. Just flow with the moment.

My Life Focus

We ought to have a focus in life so that our energy can be concentrated into one thing, and not distributed into many little things. Focus make us more effective and makes our life more meaningful. Life without focus is like letting yourself drifted in a wide blue sea.... wasted and lost.

To be in controlled, I have to own my own life. I have to recognize what is mine and what I am liable to. Follows is what I discover:

The past is gone, it is not mine.
The future is a non-existence.
What others do, may it be to me, to other beings or things, is non of my business. It is between them and God.

What is mine is my soul.
What exist is my present moment.
What is my business is what I do, whether at my will or in reaction to external factors, because I have to answer each of it to God.

Therefore, my focus in life is 'Being my soul in every moment of my life'. The soul is the doorway to the truth, so let my life be guided by the truth.

Observe Yourself

This post is actually a continuation of the previous post: Mind Your Own Business. Often times we couldn't help thinking about the past. The scene just keep on playing in our mind even though we stop it every time we become aware of it. It just keep on coming back.

So how do we stop it. The answer is your focus. Your mind will start thinking on where you are focusing on. If your mind is idle and you are not focusing on anything in particular then it tends to play the most accessible or recent memories. Thus, never let your mind be idle. Focus on your present moment. Observe yourself. Stop bothering about others, the past and the future, but focus on yourself and your present moment. If you decided to be good and beneficial no matter what, then observe yourself doing it. No one is responsible for your action except you yourself.

Focusing on the good and positives in the present moment will create a good and positive life. Forget about the past and the worries. Trust God on those matters. Watch yourself every moment. Ideally, in each moment your can be in one of three states of inner-being. You either can be in acceptance, or enjoyment or enthusiasm. Make sure you are in either one of the three states in every moment you live in.

Care for yourself, love yourself and make the best out of yourself. Instead of bothering about others and the non-existence (the past and the future), be your own best friend; always there to guide, to love, to correct, to remind and to help yourself.